Finding your true love is a challenging step, as you struggle by making a lot of hard decisions. No formula is absolutely right for everyone but there should be one applicable to you - know yourself and know whom you are looking forward to. There are a number of ways to meet your match.
> 6 Essential rules and techniques you should know when using iDateAsia:
Tip 1 - Specify your match criteria
Ask yourself about the specific requirements regarding your potential mate. For example, her age range, height, weight, appearance, education, children, occupation, and things you want to find in her. If there's something that is not negotiable under any circumstances, write it down in your profile description.
Please bear in mind here, no one is perfect. Strict criteria will make any woman in this world stress out. She will be too afraid to speak to you.
Tip 2 - Choose from your matches
Once you have defined your Match Criteria in the account settings, and agreed to accept our weekly updates notification, you will be, notified by your matches every weekend. You will also find these profiles in "My matches" section in your account. Focus your attention on our Thai women and it will be fairly easy for you to find out a suitable match! Similar to this section, you may search for your match in the "Advanced Search", which stored your previously-stated criteria.
Tip 3 - Search from the "Latest Refresh" and "Newly Posted" Profiles
Women' profiles are posted every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. If you want to be the first one to grab attention from your potential mate other than being left behind by your competitors, you should keep a close eye on the newly-posted profiles. At the same time, you may take a look at the profiles in the "Latest Refresh" section; you'll notice that many of them have updated their availability. It will be your chance to find your new love.
Tip 4 - Choose from your admirers
If you are overwhelmed by the admiration mails you've got from the ladies, you should feel very lucky and happy, as there is a better chance for you to find out a suitable match than those who haven't received any.
Women who take the initiative to contact you must find you attractive and hope to explore an opportunity to further develop a relationship. It's your time to decide who will be the one that well fit your requirements of an ideal mate. Go through her profile information, personal description, photos and message; and then compare her with your match criteria. If there is a "click", it's possible that she might be the one for you. Don't lose your chance!
Tip 5 - Add her to your Favorite List
Too many profiles are posted and you may browse them one by one. If a profile echoes your own criteria, don't forget to add her to "My favorites" list. You will find it much easier to locate this lady again in your favorite list. Meanwhile, adding to your favorite list can let your lady and her agency know you're interested.
Tip 6 - Send her a Cupid Note to show your interest first
Found a suitable lady but not sure about how she views? Are you cringed by the embarrassment of being rejected? Send her a Cupid Note to check her response first! It's a free service that enables you to send a short message showing your interest, and to expect a response from the lady. It is also an opportunity or antidote for those who don't feel confident with the written word at first.
If a positive response is received, go on to strike up a conversation. Don't delay this step. Chance is yours, but it will be lost if you don't grab it.
>Common concerns of the gentlemen when searching for the lady
1. She already has a lot of admirers and I don't seem to match her criteria. Should I give up?
You feel so excited after reading her profile but in the meantime, you found her uniqueness has attracted a lot of other guys already, or you're not even falling into her expected age range in a gentleman. At this time, some gentlemen put off sending her Cupid Note or mails because of the stress of dealing with rejection. To help you make a wise decision, please think seriously about the followings:
- Review your woman's personal information. Are you really attracted to them?
- Are you prepared to devote yourself more for this lady and show her your unique passion? An unwritten rule in the Internet dating world that is a better profile draws a more fierce competition. You may need to defeat others, so, make sure that you are willing to give more for her.
So, if she really has a lot of admirers, does it mean that you have to give up? Absolutely not! So, you may consider sending her EMF Mail, rather than a short Cupid Note. It is because EMF Mail can contain all your messages you want to tell her, a way to show your sincerity to her and win her heart. In the meantime, we suggest you not to limit your choice to certain women. Try to show your interest to other women who also match your criteria and treat it as an opportunity to meet your lifelong partner. A happy ending will come soon if you now take your step forward.
2. I love her so much. But no updates have been recorded for a long time. Is she still available?
Normally we require agencies to examine and verify the woman's information from time to time. Profiles of women who cannot be contacted or have already found their matches will be hidden. So, when you are still able to spot the profile on Thaimatches, she should be still very much single and is available for contact. Nevertheless, we cannot guarantee whether she is communicating with others or not, or she is willing to reply you. If your heart goes for her, please contact her to find the answer!
3. I received a lot of admirer mails. I wonder if they are at all sincere to meet me.
It will come as a shock to you when you receive more than 20 admirer mails. Definitely you will doubt if the women are ever at all sincere to meet the gentlemen. Be confident in yourself and don't underestimate your charm at this moment, and believe it takes a lot of time for them to find the right one to trigger an admire mail.
Every admirer mail lady sends is her anticipation of a romantic relationship. With the help from the agency, woman can browse and see her ideal match according to her own preference. Perhaps she can find one ideal match out of 100 profiles based on her own criteria (such as height, weight, age, self-description), whereas we have thousands upon thousands profiles. Woman might send her admire mails to these gentlemen who meet her preference and want to get their attention before meeting the right person. So, we think this is understandable. If you also interest her, please contact her right away and make her be your only.
Only a handful of perfect matches exist in this world, and only one of them can ignite the chemistry. Good luck, we wish you all the best here!